an itinerant marriage
at Nobu after our wedding. My life is complicated. Blah blah blah, so is yours, so is everyone’s. The way mine is complicated relates most pointedly to my marriage, which has been thrown up in the air....
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Finally yesterday it dawned on me: I am depressed. It’s an existential/meaning depression this go-round, and I’m working my way through some of it in private writing until I get enough of a handle on...
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SO much to do, and way too little time, right? That’s been my mantra my whole life. I know people who have zero interests and if I had to have their problem or mine, I’d definitely take mine every...
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up from his morning nap one day — classic Ilan move, pointing What a wonderful time I had in Chicago — too short, as always, but filled with all kinds of wonder and happiness. Every morning I got up...
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One thing they often say in AA is, “Don’t give up before the miracle.” Easy to see the relevance for addicts, scooting so painfully through minutes and hours and days, but of course it’s true for...
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An understanding, in three scenes: I turn the key in the ignition and, as if it had been queued up precisely, Elton John’s song “Seasons,” from the soundtrack to the movie Friends, starts playing and...
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